Anonymous: I really don't know the situation with your father, or how well you guys get along. If things are not that bad, just don't take him for granted. You are so lucky to still have him on this earth. My dad died in December of 2011. Your message hurt me a bit, because I'd give anything to talk to my dad again. I really like you, and i didn't mean this maliciously.
Oh dear. It’s so…complicated.
And I’m so so so sorry about your dad and that what I wrote hurt you. Really. I just…um, our relationship is frustrating and awkward and stilted most of the time and yeah. Emotional baggage and all that.
I make it sound worse than it is I know.
And don’t worry, I didn’t think you meant it maliciously, and I’m sorry I hurt you. xx